Learning while Teaching Spankings/Punishments

Personal Reflection

After years of moving to a Female Led Relationship, I ventured out to meet with other women who had more experience. We always set our limits in advance (We don’t swap or engage in any type of Cuckold activities.), assure our chemistry seems to work, and our interested activities match one another. We’ve met people with difference experiences and techniques, building our own activities. One time, we ended up meeting up with a woman who was new into domination and wanted to learn how to spank. I am glad we did.

Cathy was looking forward to learning about how to spank and was interested in witnessing and possibly engaging in some anal activities, including using the large strapon cock but had never used. Sometimes when meeting with a “newbie,” the woman is overwhelmed and simply wants to watch without actually participating. I’ve learned that sometimes that is all a woman wants to do at the time, appreciating learning in a safe environment where she can ask her questions and see anything she has spoken to me about prior to our meeting. It’s refreshing to be with people who share the same interest in spanking and potentially other activities that are not mainstream (consensual humiliation, strapon play, etc.).

Jack: The difficult thing for me is I know my bottom is going to be exposed in front of someone I just an hour earlier or possibly I will be naked. I have an idea of what might occur during the evening but one never knows for sure what might be included, although I trust my wife and know that she will only engage in activities that are within my limits. In advance, I knew that my beloved wife was going to strip me naked, inspect me, spank me in front of this other woman I just met, and demonstrate how to safely perform anal activities in front of her; I knew that it was most likely my wife was going to take me up the butt with her strapon cock. I also knew that our host was interested enough in anal activities she bought a large strapon cock that had gone unused to this point.

While such a setting is unsettling at one level, it is also a safe level of apprehension and humiliation that does something for me. It is probably what makes me different than many men. Yet, I know that many men love similar activities and only dream of having such intimate activities performed in front of or with others.